But that doesn’t mean you should let it define your future. Move on and be happy, let go. There’s no greater prison than the one you create yourself, held down by chains created by your own will to never let the past go. When you open your eyes you’ll realize there are no chains, there never were, never will be…why are you pretending they exist? Keep moving, nothing is holding you back. Be cautious of future encounters, but don’t assume everything will be the same as what happened before…you never know what surprises are waiting to happen.
Everyone engages in some sort of self destructive act from time to time to cope with things. It’s totally okay to do that. It’s not okay in the way that you should always turn to it for coping, but it’s okay that you are struggling with that because one day you will be through it and be a stronger person for it.
Yes, some peoples self destructive acts are more serious than others. That’s true. But we all have something. And it’s nothing to feel ashamed or embarrassed about. There is nothing wrong with you. You haven’t done anything wrong.
You’re human. That’s all.
And recovering from some of these self destructive ways of coping isn’t easy. We slip, we fall, we relapse.
It’s all a part of the process.
It’s not easy. And it’s not supposed to be. It’s something you can use to grow from.
Forgive yourself when you fall back into old habits, accept that they happened, and move on from them. Don’t let yourself get stuck there. Break out of the cycle. Small changes do a lot, the littlest shift could change so much for you.
Recovery is possible. Help is available. You are not alone.
Don’t talk about your cuts. Don’t look at your cuts while other people are around. Don’t reference self harm. Don’t get caught punching yourself and/or pulling your hair during class. As far as ANYBODY is concerned you don’t cut and you never have. Never speak of it with anybody ever again.
Why are you reblogging this? This is the wrong attitude for a cutter to have… very unhealthy D:
make ragecomics about being friend zoned or about the enigmatic and laughable nature of women
whine more than a 5 year old while complaining that women are over emotional
tag your tumblr posts with “woman logic” and “stupid females”
go after psychotic women and then decide to wage war on the female sex because YOU picked shitty girlfriends
refer to yourself as a “nice guy”
continually pursue women who have made it very clear to you that they aren’t interested
assume every woman that you’re nice to owes you sex
lose your shit when you find out a girl thinks of you as a friend rather than a love interest
complain about how women “ONLY GO AFTER JERKS!!!” as you attempt to emotionally manipulate women into dating you
complain that women are vain and care too much about clothes and makeup, but only go after fashionable ladies who look like pinup models.
cry when said gorgeous women are only interested in handsome, fashionable men.
be tactless and overbearing in trying to be “chivalrous.” make sure to smother your friend-girls and treat them like delicate, kitchen-dwelling glass butterflies! never let them open their own doors or make their own decisions. EVER.
refer to yourself as antifeminist or a men’s rights activist. of course, this will probably keep you from being “friend zoned” at all, because no woman will want to be friends with you.