kitherin asked:
Hey bitchtits! I got a dragon on hold for you <3





You know Filthy, you’re my best advertisement xD I would hire you as my PR manager or something^^





I had a dream that the fandom was at another DashCon-ish thing except we were getting interrupted by my shitty driving and Vamp feeling ill and everyone trying to figure out how we were going to bake a… muffin pan full of frozen chicken tenders

emmalyn and abalidoth were still cute as shit

I agree 200%

They are cute as shit. 

Is it silly that I want us all to meet up again just to do stupid stuff like spend a weekend watching netflix?


Anonymous asked:
I had a best friend and love interest with BPD, we ended the relationship..but I want to know more about people with BPD in relationships. I didn't understand why she made up problems and hated me one minute and adored me the next. I would really like to know from someone with BPD, because I really do love her and wish to know more even though we are no longer in a relationship.


I don’t think people with BPD “make up problems” as much as they do see a single problem and their imagination expands off of that single problem until it turns into all of these fears which SEEM unfounded to the non-BPD but make perfect sense to someone with the disorder. Please don’t accuse someone with BPD of “making up problems.” It’s a silencing tactic, and even borderline breakdowns are triggered by something. We never do things for “no reason.” Are we melodramatic? Sure. But we don’t make up things to be upset about. We don’t pick fights. If we’re feeling upset, THERE IS A REASON FOR THAT.

The thing about borderline folks in relationships is we are constantly afraid you are lying to us. 1) We probably had to experience being lied to a lot before, probably a lot of it starting in childhood. 2) Professionals and published books everywhere make us out to be impossible to love. We read those books. We believe them. Then someone comes up and says they love us? Liars. 3) We live in an ableist society which is constantly abusing us and we never know if you’re a friend or a foe. 4) OUR BRAINS ARE CONSTANTLY FIGHTING AGAINST US. Constantly. All the time. I’m sitting here trying to eat a sandwich right now, and my brain is coming up with reasons why I shouldn’t do that. I’ve counted eleven reasons now. That’s my brain constantly. And if someone came up to me and said, “Just eat the damn sandwich, Mea,” I’d probably yell at them because I’d feel invalidated.

It’s hard to love someone and feel like they hate you, I know. BPD involves a lot of splitting (black and white thinking) and sometimes you may be in the Black. You’re the bad guy. And that hurts! Your pain is valid, and they’ll owe you an apology when it’s over. But I think it’s important for you to understand that whatever is happening, they are the ones with the mental illness and they are the ones who are dealing with it 24/7. Someone else’s borderline may hurt your feelings, but it abuses them on a constant basis. Empathize! Validate their feelings. Ask questions. Figure out what triggered the breakdown and do what you can to help. Remember that mentally ill people are victims, and while that doesn’t excuse them to victimize someone else, they are still victims and should be treated as such.


tabi921 asked:
marking, home, and lore

marking: describe your tattoos,or tattoos you would like in the future?

I have two— Megamind’s “M” logo on my chest (about where it rests on him) and Dal’s cute little blue swirl design.

Planned, I’m getting the swirl touched up because whoadamn it kind of sucks (you get what you pay for!) and then some of the stars Spider One drew for me on the inner wrist. Both arms are going to have two black bands wrapping around my wrists (like my furry character) with the bands on the right arm including the quote “There’s a benefit to losing; you get to learn from your mistakes” within the band.

I really just want stuff on my wrists. I like bracelets but cannot stand to have jewelry bumping into me when drawing/writing.

home: in what type of environment do you feel most safe?

The safest I ever felt was at the hotel with the Megamind fandom. I never thought I could be in a room with so many people and feel so safe, it was great. I left my shit all over the room and never once was worried that someone would harm/take any of it. You guys rock.

Additionally, cuddles. Cuddles make me feel very safe. I really love physical contact with people I trust.

lore: if your life were a tale, how do u expect it would end??

That crazy Filthy bitch who bothered Dreamworks repeatedly for more Megamind stuff. Additionally, it would end with my tombstone saying something along the lines of “Dreamworks make more Megamind stuff”. I will bother them even in death, damnit!


You guys ask me more shit so I have something to do once I get home from work! ;u;<3 please?


Im all packed for C4 and ready to go!

It’s currently five in the morning so im setting the queue to post this at a more decent hour. I hope the gif works, other wise its gonna be awkward… ah well. By any means, I’m in some serious need of some sleep!

I hope you all have a wonderfully fantastic day! May you reach all your goals!

(via lilaira)

sleep: what is the most comforting thing at night time for you?
visitor: what creature visits your dreams most often?
chimes: what sounds are your favorite?
times: when do you normally awaken?
marking: describe your tattoos,or tattoos you would like in the future?
reverie: think of somewhere otherworldly u wish to be within, what is it like there?
warmth: what do you find most charming in others?
treat: your favorite sweets ?
nestle: your most precious plush toy?
posy: your favorite herbs?
stories: books you remember from your childhood?
folk: who is the most fantastical being u have known?
elder: what do u expect to be like in your elder years?
home: in what type of environment do you feel most safe?
finds: what kind of item would you most likely buy from an antique store?
offering: how do you show others you are fond of them?
lore: if your life were a tale, how do u expect it would end??







(via goomed)




this is my favourite version you cant stop me

#its actually very sad

youre right it is sad

because this is how it would’ve been from elsa’s perspective

no big sweeping and motivational orchestration to fill the silence and the mountains

nothing but the sound of her own voice and the wind

just her


This broke my heart.


goats are naturally skilled climbers


goats are naturally skilled climbers

(via iguanamouth)


Lady GaGa - “Dance in the Dark”

"The record is about a girl who likes to have sex with the lights off, because she’s embarrassed about her body. She doesn’t want her man to see her naked. She will be free, and she will let her inner animal out, but only when the lights are out.

She doesn’t feel free without the moon. These lyrics are a way for me to talk about how I believe women and some men feel innately insecure about themselves all the time. It’s not sometimes, it’s not in adolescence, it’s always.

The song isn’t called ‘Dance in the Light,’ I’m not a gospel singer trying to cross people over. What I’m saying is, ‘I get it. I feel you, I feel the same way, and it’s OK.’”

(via rooks-and-ravens)




Nicki Minaj - Anaconda

no really im serious nicki minaj repurposing a song about the male view of sexual climate into a destigmatized anthem of championing your own sexuality is the biggest thing to happen in the world of music in this century. im not joking this is the best song made in like hundreds of years

Tonight I had a talk with my teens about this exact topic.  Days like today I love my job so much. 

I think the song got taken down so DOINK!

thatfilthyanimal asked:
Idk if you saw the other links I sent BUT you should draw vice in that guy's outfit + the jacket because reasons :D


I didnt see them D= But Im sure its HOT AND I SHOULD


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